Loftis family leaves the Ozarks to travel the country full time

Laine and Michael Loftis are currently traveling the country full-time in a RV with their four children, pictured, from left, 5-year-old Layla, 3-year-old Chason, 1-year-old Gabriel and 7-year-old Grady. The family is documenting life on the road through Facebook, Instagram and YouTube under the name “Loftis Party of Six.”

Last week the Loftis family was at the Grand Canyon, where they got to experience the natural wonder as snowflakes fell. This week the family of six has been “boondocking,” camping without any hookups, at Lake Powell, outside Page, Arizona. Next they will head to Denver to spend Easter with family.

Laine Loftis, who runs a social marketing business with her husband Michael, says she loves the flexibility she has with her company to work as her family travels. The couple says it is important for them to make time to run the business, and it's a complete team effort. When Laine "powers out" a few hours of work on her laptop, Michael usually takes the kids outside to play. When Michael needs to edit video clips or help with technical aspects of the job, Laine and the kids find somewhere away from Michael to have some mom-time. Laine is pictured here video conferencing with some of her team members while in Sedona, Arizona, earlier this month.

Laine Loftis says it has been an adjustment for her family of six to learn to live full time in their 38-foot fifth wheel camper. Laundry, though, has become an easier chore. With significantly fewer clothes, less space and a need to continually conserve water, laundry just can't pile up. The Loftis's camper is outfitted with a dual washer/dryer that they use for most of their clothes washing. Sometimes they do take advantage of laundromats in the areas they are traveling.

Laine and Michael Loftis are homeschooling their children as they travel the country, integrating their travel for hands-on learning experiences. The couple's 7-year-old son Grady is in first grade and their 5-year-old daughter Layla is in pre-school.

Michael and Laine Fish Loftis, with their four children, traded life in the Ozarks eight months ago for life on the road in a 38-foot fifth-wheel camper. Now they’re living out their most adventurous dream – traveling the country, homeschooling along the way, and living their full days together – all six of them – in 350 square feet of space. 

The couple took a leap of faith last August on what they acknowledge was a crazy, adventurous idea, and  now they say they can’t imagine what life would be like if they hadn’t packed up and left, bringing along  children Grady, 7, Layla, 5, Chason, 3, and Gabriel, 1. 

”As far as doing this life, zero regrets. I would regret so much had we not done this,” Laine said. 


Lots of questions, one simple answer

Michael first seriously considered the idea of full-time traveling and RV living in fall 2017, about a year before they actually hit the road. He shared his idea with Laine, and the couple began dreaming. For months, they stayed up late at night after the kids went to bed in their Squires-area home, talking about what their life could be, looking at RVs and interacting with people online who were living the “RV life.” The dream began to take hold in those dreamy-eyed, talk-all-night sessions. 

“During that year I was watching lots of YouTube videos… watching people actually living the RV life and just learning from them,” Michael said. “A lot of those times, I’d come home and share stuff with Laine.”

The couple’s excitement grew at the thought of spending more time together, actively choosing what they filled their days with and providing their kids with exponentially more experiences than they could with the daily 9-to-5 grind. 

With some solid research and plans behind them, they broke the news of their big, wild dream to their family. While most tried to be supportive, the concerns, hesitations and worries, out of love, were in thick supply. Laine, who shares their experience on her blog, Loftis Party of Six, wrote about the struggle of trying to explain it all. 

“In the beginning, I felt the need to have a reason. A plan. It needed to make sense. For me, a little, but mainly for everyone else. I needed an explanation for my friends and family. It seemed absurd to do what we were about to do… and immature …and stupid …and irresponsible …and it just didn’t make sense,” Laine wrote. “I was embarrassed when people would start asking questions about where we were going. Why were we going? What was the purpose? What did our kids think? How long would we be gone? When people would start asking questions… I would literally feel nauseous.”

Laine said she would go home after being hammered with questions and demand that Michael provide her with answers to pass on to their loved ones. 

“I needed answers so I didn’t feel like an idiot trying to explain something I didn’t understand,” she said. “My chest gets tight even typing about it. Pressure. Such pressure. Why was I agreeing to it when I was so torn?”

Their loved ones felt torn too, but some family members, like Michael’s parents, Greg and Shena Loftis, knew that this adventurous life was a calling from God. 

“When Michael told us, when he said the Lord had laid it upon his heart to step out and do this, it was a surprise, sure. And it was hard – having to let go of them, let our babies go,” Shena told the TimesMonday. “But we have believed from the beginning that it was God’s plan. It’s so out of character for Michael to come up with something like this. Laine is the adventurer. This wasn’t something I would imagine would come from Michael. When he was younger we called him the ‘little old man.’ He has always just been content with life, just to be at home by himself. He is the type of person to really think things through and is always so stable. So when he said this was God’s plan, we knew it was true.”

Shena said Michael was so confident that God was leading their family down the path of full-time travel and RV living that it was a struggle in the beginning to be patient. 

“The problem was that he was so sure it was going to happen, that he thought it was going to happenthen. That month. So he was a little discouraged when it didn’t happen right away. He was just positive that the house was going to sell and that his business was going to sell right away,” Shena said. “I told him that wasn’t how God works. God does it in his time, not ours. I told him I knew it was going to happen, but it may be a while before it all fits together. I told him, ‘We believe in you. We support you. We know this is of God, and it will happen. Just be patient.’”

Michael’s revelation happened about the same time that Laine found out she was pregnant with Gabriel, and Laine was a little hesitant to jump into the whole new way of life with a new child on the way.

“It took about a year for the house and business to get squared away, but it was time that was needed. Laine needed time to get on board with this idea 100 percent. She had to totally believe it to make it work, and when she did, it all fell into place.”

Laine said it was when she finally felt at peace with the decision that she realized that she and Michael felt called to do this for their family, and that was enough. 

“[God] didn’t say I had to work a 9-to-5 that I didn’t enjoy. He didn’t say I had to put my kids in public school. He didn’t say I have to go to church every Sunday. He didn’t say I had to live a uniformed, stationary life. He didn’t say I had to raise my kids to do that either... I don’t have all the answers, and that feels really, really good. Let the adventures begin!” she said.


A closing chapter

The adventure could only begin with one rather painful path forward. The sale of the family’s home would provide the money to purchase the truck and camper that would replace it. The home in Squires that Michael and Laine had designed for their family and planned to live in for the rest of their lives was cleaned out and put on the market. And when closing day came, so did the tears. 

“Up until today it was our home. Our forever home. Our grow old together home. Our dream home,” Laine wrote on the blog on the day of closing. “I remember… staying up all hours of the night sketching our house plans on notebook paper with a #2 pencil… it was us. We planned to be here forever. It’s been the most beautiful season. We’ve planted grass, flowers, trees and many memories here. We’ve poured out blood, sweat, tears and many prayers. Those walls have seen laughter, anguish, love, tempers, forgiveness, grace, pranks and worship. Those floors have been walked many nights with teething babies. Two babies took their first steps there. It’s been beautiful.”

The Loftis family had to downsize everything else too. Laine and Michael spent a whirlwind few weeks selling, giving away and donating 90 percent of what they owned. Only the necessities made the cut. They purchased a 2009 1-ton Chevy crew cab truck and a 2012 Montana Mountaineer edition 345BQ 38-foot fifth wheel camper, and on July 28, 2018, they said their goodbyes to their family and friends, hopped into their new home and took off. 

Laine’s blog continued to document those early days and the panic, worry and heaviness of the life they were leaving behind – along with their faith in what they had chosen for their family’s next chapter. The kids missed their cousins, their dog, their home. 

“Guilt. Doubt. Fear… I’ve masked it well, but my heart has ached multiple times. When Layla asked if she could go spend the night with Copper, our dog we left with the family that bought our home, my heart hurt because I feel like that was her way of expressing being homesick. When Chason FaceTimed his cousins and best friend Dawson, and Dawson was talking about school, Chason said he wanted to go to school. I just took that opportunity from him. He won’t walk into a new school building with a cute little backpack, and we won’t have those first day of school pictures. Had I failed them? Should I have refused to do this? I’ve literally had moments of feeling my heart starting to break,” Laine wrote a week after they left the Ozarks for RV life. 

“We have made sacrifices. I have made choices that will make my kids’ childhood a little different from the norm, but I am really, really glad for that,” she wrote. “They might not get to buy their preschool nap mat, but they’re going to get to climb an elephant rock. They might not get to see Copper for a few months, but they’re going to get to see bears and buffalo and moose out in the wild….They will get us. All of us. Every day. They will see we made sacrifices to get here, but some things are worth the sacrifice.”


Life on the Road

Along with the blog, Laine and Michael have documented their RV life in weekly videos they film, edit and post to YouTube – sharing their experiences, good and bad, with laughter and good spirits. 

The video clips give followers a glimpse into the family’s experiences, including visiting Mount Airy, North Carolina, the town where the family’s favorite TV program, The Andy Griffith Show, was filmed. Other travels took them to the rose-lined gardens of the Billy Graham Library in Charlotte, North Carolina; the grassy valley of Cades Cove in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park in Tennessee; the Spanish-moss-draped streets of Savannah, Georgia; and an especially exciting private airboat tour in the Florida Everglades. 

The family returned home to the Ozarks from November 2018 through January 2019 and parked at Greg and Shena’s Thornfield farm to celebrate Christmas with their family. Then they hit the road again to continue their adventure. 

“It’s bittersweet when they come and go,” Shena said, adding that she gets to video chat with the family a few times a week. “But God has a purpose for them, and we are behind them 100 percent.”

Many of their adventures have provided hands-on learning for the family’s youngsters, including visiting places like the Johnson Space Center in Houston and Waco Mammoth National Monument in Texas as part of their homeschool curriculum in which Grady is currently in first grade and Layla is in pre-school. 

Laine says the questions concerning the kids were endless before they left – both from well-intentioned friends and family and from her own heart. What about your kids? What about school? What about social skills? What about them not having a home? What about friendships? Now the family has some perspective and can answer these tough questions. 

“Our kids love traveling the world. I think that’s awesome, and so do they. We all love homeschool. Talk about hands-on learning! It’s awesome,” Laine posted recently on the Loftis Party of Six Instagram account. “They are excelling in education and learning to think outside the box. They talk to everyone they know, and their social skills involve being able to carry on a conversation with those older and younger than them, which isn’t typical. I’m so proud of them for that! ‘Home is where you are’ rings truer to us than it has ever before. Sometimes we talk about having an actual home again, but the thought of ending our travels seems like a horrible idea to all of us. We discuss this often to hear the kids’ hearts on it. 

“If you’re an adult, you know that friends come and go, but family is forever. You are blessed with a handful of solid, true friends at most, right? Our kids have met new friends in almost every state and stay in touch with them. But honestly, they are each other’s best friend, and I love that. We do miss our cousins though and long to see them more,” she wrote. 


Financing the journey

Laine and Michael say the number one question they are asked by their social media followers is how they finance full-time travel and life in the RV.

Before the family sold their house in Squires and bought the truck and RV, Michael was working full time as an insurance agent. Laine had owned Laine’s Shear Intensity salon in Theodosia for many years before deciding to close the business to stay home with their children; she had also become involved with a social marketing company selling weight-management, nutrition and personal-care products. 

When the couple decided to sell their house and go on the road full time, they decided to refocus their careers, and both Laine and Michael made a goal to grow the social marketing business together.

“That was one thing about this whole life for us, me being able to quit my job and be here with Laine running her business,” Michael said. “That was my goal. It was to be able to free up her time because she’s a rock star. She’s got a great team, and she needs time to run the business.”

The couple say that often Michael will take the children outside, or Laine will hop in the family’s truck and drive to a nearby quiet spot where she can “power out” an hour or two of work. Laine says she estimates she works about two to five hours a day. 

When Michael is editing their YouTube videos or doing other work associated with the business, Laine takes the kids outside and lets him have a few hours to finish editing alone. 

As long-time fans of radio personality Dave Ramsey and his budgeting advice, Michael and Laine say they try to follow Ramsey’s ideas and live within a planned budget. They paid cash for their truck and camper and had no other debt when they started the journey. In the most recent Loftis Party of Six YouTube video, the couple broke down their monthly expenses for March. Their average expenses run around $2,500 to $3,000 per month and include campground fees, fuel, groceries, restaurant and coffee shop purchases, entertainment, propane, dump station fees, cell phone plans, health insurance, truck, RV and life insurance, and laundry costs. To watch the video, visit 


Looking to the future

While Michael and Laine have some general ideas about what they hope for the future, they say they are really just seeing where life takes them. They have a goal to at least visit all the states before they end their full-time RV lifestyle. 

After that, will they purchase a house again?

“Yeah, we want to have a home again,” Laine said. “But right now, the thought of living in a home makes me sweat and makes me stressed, and like, I know God has us in this season right now because of that.”

Their goal is, at some point, to purchase a small house or cabin back in the Ozarks to serve as a home base. They say they will use it as a home when they’re back visiting family, and they’ll rent it out while they continue to travel. 

“We would love to have a home base,” Michael said. “But we also love to travel. I honestly don’t ever see that part stopping.”


Follow  the Loftis family by searching Facebook, Instagram and YouTube for “Loftis Party of Six” or #weROAM or visit the blog at 

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